Showing posts with label Interview. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Interview. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Debunking Homeschool Myths


In 2007, there were 1.5 million homeschooled students in the United States according to the National Center for Education Statistics.  This number has been steadily rising since 1999, and represents a 74% relative increase.  According to this study, in 2007 the most common reason given for homeschooling was to provide a religious and moral environment, and the next most common reason was concern over the safety of the school environment due to drugs and negative peer pressure.

Zefferine Payne, who is a homeschooling mother of four children, sat down with FLF to explore all the aspects of this educational opportunity.  She has homeschooled her children for the past 11 years, and has been a part of this still small but steadily increasing movement.

In this article, we will combat fears in regards to providing homeschool education for your children.  If you've played around with the idea of homeschooling, or know that you should be homeschooling for whatever reason, or just want to learn more about homeschooling, this article is for you.

I’m not smart enough, and I’m not a good teacher.
Due to all of the resources available now, anyone with a high school education can homeschool at least up to the middle school level according to Payne.  There are a wide variety of curriculum options that allow the parent to be the sole teacher and grade all the papers, or with the use of technology, you can share the responsibility of teaching.  Here are your options:

  •      Entirely computer based where all materials are sent to you on a disk
  •      Streaming video
  •      On-line education (similar to an online degree program)
  •      Teaching DVDs
  •      Your local homeschool association
  •      Parent as teacher
Of course you can mix and match these options, and supplement yourself as the teacher in subjects you’re comfortable with and use these other options with subjects you’re not comfortable with.  Payne loves the A-Beka, Christian Liberty, and Bob Jones curriculums because they’ve been around for years, Christian based, and they’ve been rigorously tested.

I don’t have enough money to homeschool.
Homeschooling is a financial commitment, just like most things worth having.  Typically, in a homeschool family, only one parent is working outside of the home.  As far as the cost of homeschool curriculum and materials, the cost is nominal and depends on how much of the teaching and grading of papers you plan to do on your own or if you would like the organization to provide you with grading and teaching services.  Curriculum costs can range from $600 - $1,500, with the organizations listed above.  (Please do your own research.)  Here are some options for you to consider if you cannot afford to go down to one income:

  •       Allow another homeschool family to teach your child(ren) and work out the financial details with them
  •      Find a night job, so that you can homeschool during the day.  (It has been done, but you have to want it.)
  •      Draw a line in the sand and figure out what’s most important to you.  If you know you should be homeschooling, then cut back in some other areas to make it possible.
I want my kinds to be social and develop relationships with other kids.
Homeschooling is definitely still an option that is in the minority, however, you have to do what’s right for you.  There are homeschool associations all over the country that can provide you with social opportunities for the kids, as well as, parents.  The association Payne uses for some of her children’s education is The South Suburban Home School and Gym Group.  They offer gym classes, dance, hockey, archery, basketball, and chemistry classes just to name a select few.  You can also meet up with other homeschool families for play dates, field trips, and classes.

My family will think I’m weird if I homeschool my children.
This may be true, however, you have to do what makes sense for your family.  Pray and ask God to show you what He would have you to do in regards to your child(ren)’s education, and move forward with that without wavering.

Payne never really saw herself as a stay-at-home/ homeschool mother until it was time to send her first child to Kindergarten.  She’d always felt uneasy with taking him to the babysitter, because she had to be away from him for the better part of the day.  He attended a church pre-school program, and he learned quite a bit, and was very advanced.  When it came time for the Kindergarten round-up and she learned that her son would not be taught to read during his first year of school, and he would be given another year to play, Payne was certain that it was time to do something different, so she prayed, and God opened doors and showed her a way.  She was exposed to homeschooling through the families that attended her church, but she didn’t know much.  She took the task on, because she wanted to be in control of her children’s education and give them the head start they needed in life.  As a college student, Payne learned very quickly that she wasn’t as equipped as the other students although she was always at the top of her class.  Under her tutelage, her children will have every chance at success.

***This post isn’t a pro-homeschool article to make everyone want to jump right in.  However, I am presenting an option in regards to providing quality education for children.  My personal belief is that God cares about His children, and if you have any concern, present it to Him, and He will give you peace.

What are your thoughts on providing a homeschool education?


Zefferine Payne is currently homeschooling three of her four children, and has homeschooled for the past 11 years.  Payne holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Electrical Engineering from Northwestern University in Evanston, IL.   

Friday, August 26, 2011

Exploring the DNA of Christian Spoken Word Artist, Janette...ikz


God's annointing is definitely flowing all over Christian spoken word artist, Janette...ikz!  I had the distinct pleasure of catching up with this young lady to learn more about the woman behind this incredible gift.  If you haven't seen it by now, please check out her poem, "I Will Wait for You".  Whether you agree or disagree, Janette...ikz is just excited that the seed has been planted by hearing the words of this incredible piece.

Leading up to the interview, I got more and more nervous, but in the end everything was better than I could have imagined.  Janette...ikz has the most humble servant's heart and she is a total sweetheart.  So let's hop to it and learn more about the woman behind the words of "I Will Wait for You," "HypoChristian", and "The Truth Without Photoshop".


About Janette...ikz
Janette...ikz is a young lady full of humility, and wants to be kept there.  She wants to remain available for whatever God wants to do with her, and she loves being in touch with God's people.  She currently serves as a Worship Leader at her church, and is passionate about living her life in a way that is inspiring to others.  Things were not always this good in her life.  As a young child Janette...ikz suffered through severe physical punishment that kept her out of school for weeks at a time and sexual abuse at the hands of her father and uncle.  She cried and prayed herself to sleep many nights, but through it all, she relied on God even at her young age.  These encounters haunted her up to young adulthood until she was able to fully give it to God and move forward.   There were happy times as well; developing a close knit relationship with her grandmother, putting on elaborate skits with her cousins, and reciting Bible verses were all a part of her childhood.

Where does the name MissTerious Janette...ikz come from?
Janette...ikz was born 32 years ago as Janette McGhee, and comes from a long lineage of artists, intercessors, and prayer warriors.  She explained that everyone in her family is gifted in the arts.  All the way back to her great-grandfather who was a musician.  Her mom is a great teacher of God's Word, and her grandmother is a strong woman of God.  As a child, her grandmother would be on her knees praying well before any of the kids were up and getting ready for school, and at the leading of the Holy Spirit, she would wake them up at 3 a.m. to annoint them with oil.  The MissTerious portion of her name comes from the fact that some people just don't get her, and never will.  Janette...ikz feels that she has the kind of "X-factor" that only God can understand.


What advice would you give to someone who has been walking down a destructive path and wants to turn it around and live 100% for Christ?
"Take assessment  of who you are and what you like.  Understand how short lived things are, i.e. sex, drugs, and money.  Christ is the only thing that is everlasting.  You can never be satisfied with something that wasn't meant to complete you.  Only God can complete you!  Ask God to show you who you are and what you're about.  The Word needs to become your best friend."

What is the back-story behind the poem, "I Will Wait for You"?
This poem actually started as a mere journal entry, and has exploded into a YouTube phenom.  Celebrities like Chrisette Michelle are even tweeting about this piece.  Janette...ikz never expected for it to blow up like it has.  Matter of fact, she is so humble, that she doesn't keep track of the numbers and accolades, she's just excited that God has used this poem to inspire many women....and men!  Being the first of 15 grandchildren and having such a close relationship with her Grandmother, the pressure is/was on for Janette...ikz to find someone special, but she refuses to settle and her attitude ended up breathing life to a generation who needs to understand the sanctity of marriage and waiting to have sex.  She says that she'd rather be single than settle.  She finished the poem two days before a big performance, and she previewed it for some of her friends, and she received mixed reviews; some of her friends were not feeling the piece.  She started to go in and change and alter some things, when God said, "I gave it to you how it is now."  So, she let it be, and gave a very nervous yet outstanding delivery.


Have you found the man that "reminds you of Solomon's wisdom" when he speaks?
"I'm still super single!"  A description some of her old friends have used to describe her.  Janette...ikz also stresses the importance of not even entertaining a relationship that God hasn't spoken about first.  Her future man will definitely have to be "molded by the hands of God".  She explains that she's even a lot for her own self, so she could only imagine how she would be in a relationship.






What inspires you to write and perform?


"Life!"  she says.  Janette...ikz is inspired by the simple and the crazy, people who defy the odds and break molds.  She mentioned that she inspired by people who strive for more in adverse situations.  For instance, the dancer with a little meat on her bones, or single fathers, and single mothers.  Janette...ikz strives to do everything at a caliber of excellence to combat other influences of the world.  She never wants her work to be corny.

What projects are you currently working on?  What do you have in store for the future?
Janette...ikz is wrapping up her first album, which should be ready soon.  There will only be two poems on the album, and the song "Misfit" will be available on I-Tunes shortly.  Her most famous poem, "I Will Wait for You" will also be available on I-Tunes.  As for the future, Janette...ikz says, "...I try not to plan too far out into the future.  I always want to be open to be led by God."





What do you like to do for fun?
Listening to live music is one of Janette...ikz's favorite things to do when she's not jetsetting around the globe.  She also enjoys river rafting, the outdoors, camping, and anything she's never done before.  Since she has such a busy schedule, one of the most fun things to do is lounge around and watch movies.  Her favorite thing to cook is lamb, and she enjoys eating her best friend's soul food and her grandmother's New Orleans style cuisine.
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